Married Men
What is it with men and their inability to maintain a monogamous relationship with their wife? It has always baffled me that men find this such a hard challenge.
It’s true that most men are not unfaithful to their spouses. At least not in a sexual sense. But they deinitely do have girlfriends; trophy ones, sometimes. Even the seemingly nice men. They do, you know! Don’t be fooled by their gentlemen manners and charm. They are usually the ones with girlfriends keliling pinggang!
If you ask them, they will always admit they love their wife. They love their wife, they love their children, they love their marriage, they love their family. That’s a fact many men won’t deny. But they don’t seem to think that it’s wrong to have a non-sexual relationships with other women asides from their wives. (Not mentioning the ones who actually do!) Just for the thrill of it. Konon-konon to spark their marriage life. If you ask me, that’s a load of crap.
Can’t they imagine the pain and disappointment their wife and children would feel if they ever found out their husband and father has a "girlfriend"? Flirting with the opposite sex is one thing. Men are always prone to that. But they can actually take flirting to a different level.
The best part is that when you ask them if they ever think about their wives’ feelings, do you know what some of them can answer? Pandai-pandailah budget. Boleh ye cakap macam tu? Jangan budget-budget sangat, cik abang. Satu hari kantoi besar dengan madam, baru padan muka!
Seriously… Sometimes you can laugh at the antics they can come up with just to maintain the relationships with their girlfriends behind their wife’s back! Sms-ing in the toilet while at home. Going to the mosque in their kain pelekat but then ending up at the mamak stall dating with their girlfriends. In their kain pelekat and all!!! Seriously… What were they thinking? What were their girlfriends thinking???!!!
These men can even sneak out at nights to catch some moments together with their partners. Hebat betul! Ilmu apa ye diorang pakai? That their wife don’t get up in the middle of the night and find their husbands missing from the bed, and wonder where they have gone to?
Entahlah… The world is full of weird and interesting people.
